Your Birthday Is Coming…
You are counting the days until your birthday, and you always make a year round up of all the things that happened, as you usually do before New Year celebration.
Ups and downs, wins and loses, highs and lows…they are always present, but you already know that without this duality, there will be no moving forward in life.
Experiencing both sides of a coin comes as a blessing, but you will understand that as you grow older and mature along the way.
If you realize there are more things you need to resolve and let go before your birthday, then, making such commitment before you start a new year in your life is highly appreciated.
And it is for your own good as well.
Things To Resolve Before Your Birthday
There are things that need immediate attention that you may not be aware of, and here we summarize some of them as a starting point and a little boost for you.
A little kick in the but
1.Never Think It Is “Too Late”
It is never too late for anything.
If you are strong willed person, these words shouldn’t be in your vocabulary at all. Of course that whenever going through a crisis, you tend to surrender and say it is too late – but it isn’t.
New beginnings bring new experiences, leading you to new spiritual journey of your soul uplifting.
Remember, whenever you tend to say it is too late for something, just think of all the people around the world who have experienced war, floods or earthquakes that ruined their homes and lives – they were forced to find inner strength and carry on.
If they can – why can’t you?
It is never too late to start over!
2. Anxiety About Your Future
Future is something that can’t be predicted. You can course your life towards something, but no one knows what future brings.
So why anxiety about it?
Life is meant to be lived in present time, not in the past, nor in the future.
Past is over and it should be left there. Gather all experiences, make selection and notice that each experience led you towards rising of your inner spirit, maturity, and made you a person as you are today.
Future is created now. In the present time.
Whatever you want to have in the future, seed NOW.
Lower your unrealistic expectations and simply go by the flow. Be in charge of what you have now, and manage what you want to accomplish in future.
Live now and Act NOW!
3.Envy and Jealousy? But Why?
Don’t tell me you have those character attributes!
Someone else have something you don’t? Have you asked yourself what path has taken “that someone” to get what they want?
Was it legit, or was just handed over to them as some kind of inheritance?
Don’t envy or get jealous to people who you think have it all. They may have all the material things in the world, and be the most empty shells you have ever seen.
Not every wealthy person is a happy one. Maybe they have it all, but lacking from true love, real friends… you name it.
Everyone has its own path, and don’t compare yourself. Maybe they have so many bad experiences in gaining their goal, you wouldn’t like to have them in your life. Ever!
Go to your own path and gather YOUR experiences down the road.
Learn your own lessons.
Maybe it will be a harder way, but they surely will lead you towards something better.
4. Issues With Unresolved Anger
Don’t keep your anger within, ’cause it will eat you up – alive.
It is a beast fed by negative emotions, and if you want to keep your anger away – find its roots and chop them.
Anger won’t let you go further and make clear decisions. Get rid of such mind and soul blurriness, and move on.
Face the root of your anger and make it parish.
It is that easy.
5. Stop Making Excuses
Oh, yes…we all find ourselves in that enchanted “excuse” circle and fall sometimes. Excuses for starting a diet, exercising, learning or doing something – makes us sore losers.
It is not wise to postpone things. You will do them anyway, sooner or later.
If you need to discipline your mind – yoga practice is the answer. It will make you feel fulfilled and will motivate and change you without even noticing it. Try and you’ll see.
Make a plan and stick to it. Force yourself to do it until it becomes a natural habit. New habits are installed in only 30 days and if you don’t believe it – just try it and prove what we are saying.
Many have tried and succeeded.
Why can’t you?
6. Speak You Mind
If you have a problem speaking your mind – then you are in trouble. You’ll always end up disappointed and you’ll blame everybody about it.
And the blame is only on you.
Why fear to speak your mind? You think that you may hurt someone? No. You just have to speak openly about everything and it isn’t something to withhold.
If something is bothering you and you need some kind of issue closure – do it.
Speak your mind!
7. Financial Worries
There is no person on this planet who is not worrying about their finances. Who doesn’t want to have material “blessings” that are moving the world…
But, if you become obsessed with it, it will only become an obstacle in your life. If you focus only on money, many other beautiful things will go by, and you won’t have the pleasure of experiencing them.
Save, but don’t be Mr. Scrooge from Christmas Carol. If you haven’t seen the movie, we strongly advise to watch it.
It has a MAJOR point.
8. Be Who You Are
If you ever decide to change, do it only for yourself and nobody else. Improving the new version of you is a good sign of your inner improvement and I applause you for that.
But, don’t lose you core of being who you are. Make it a beautiful transformation as butterfly comes from a caterpillar bug.
9. Let Go Past Mistakes
Don’t hold on to them as a blind man stick. They will become an obstacle in your life if you go through them on…and on…and on…
There is no point, really.
If they have taught you anything – great. And if not, you’ll still experience them – again!
10. Stop Trying To Change People
This might sound disappointing, but, you can’t change nobody. And stop trying to. It is wasted energy. Rather focus on yourself.
If someone wants to change , they will do it because they want to – not you.
Would you like someone to force you to change and remodel by their wish?
I think not.
11. Chase Your Dreams
Dream. And dream big. It is your birthday and you are allowed to do it.
The biggest dreamers are the biggest achievers. Everything is possible if you put your mind up to it.
If you fall – try again.
Until you succeed.
And now, as you have resolved all these pre birthday issues, it is a time for celebration.
Happy birthday to you and let the party begin
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