Through life we all meet all kinds of people.Some will either inspire you,or either will drain your energy. The question is : How to get rid of people that are toxic in your life and which are they?
1.Sponge Time Soak Like People
These kind of people may be your family members or some of your friends.They just capture your time like….FOREVER!
They can sometimes sound like broken records.Every time the same story on,and on,and on…They will waste too much of your time, if you let them.
Getting rid of them?Well ,family members you can’t ,but you can always INVENT avoiding situations and offend no one. We all need alone time for ourselves.
I can’t stand over-criticizing people.Since they are not satisfied with their lives, they usually puke on everything around them.It is such annoying practice.
Constructive criticism is OK,but not constructive in any way? My dears,you are about to lose many “friends” you have left. You can always tell them that their constant criticism is not helpful in any way and it upsets you.A LOT!
These kind of people never take a blame for their mistakes.They are always “victims” and nothing is ever their fault. These people just HAVE to be avoided at all costs and not to let yourself being pulled in their spider net, because they may start to involve you in their everlasting blame game.
Avoid,avoid,avoid at any cost! Otherwise, their negative attitude and mindset will bring you down along with them.They are energetic vampires that will suck off all the good energy you have.
They spread such negativity around that it will contaminate everyone in their surroundings.These people are always anxious, worried, pessimistic, depressed and complain a LOT.
5.Short Fused People
Why do you have to put yourself in a position to absorb their silly and childish outbursts? We all have difficult moments but we manage them with dignity. Not knowing how to solve their own issues,they usually pour out on anyone in their surroundings. AVOID THEM!
Letting off some steam is OK ,but not their way!
6.Non Empathic People
It seems that they do not feel anything for nobody but themselves.They are not capable of being a shoulder you can cry on, expecting to understand your problems.These people have personality problems(issues) and some of them display as narcissist tendencies.
They do not have the ability to put themselves in other people’s shoes,since it is the key to social interaction and ethical behavior. That is why you do not want them around you.
If you want your secret to be a secret,hold it in.Do not say it to one.Otherwise,in a short period of time, you will hear about it in your office,or among friends and family. And when you do confront with the person you have confide in, you will hear the biggest lies EVER told.
These people can only damage friendship over time because trust, truthfulness and honesty are the most precious qualities in any friendship. If they do these things, they are not worthy of your friendship AT ALL.
Oh…there are so many on every step you take…in office…even in your own home…They use gossip as a weapon and there is always a hidden agenda.
Manipulative friends know how to extract information from you, or get you to reveal certain weaknesses which they will then use against you.
They will exploit your generosity, and will rarely give anything in return. You can soon spot it if you are the one who is always the giver,or the one who pays up for everything!
Don’t let yourself being used from these kind of people.They are poisonous for you. And a BIG TIME waisters.
Well,this list can go on and on ,and feel free to enlarge it with adding comments of your own.
Protect your spirit from contamination. Let us SAVE ourselves!