Our Life – Our Choices
The choices we make in our life depend on variety of circumstances, and no one but you, knows why you’ve made them.
For some, they will be not acceptable, but what the heck…it is your life and your choices, and you don’t need to explain them to no one.
Choices are defining you as a free person, and even the wrong ones are OK, if you learn your lesson from them.
Good or bad it doesn’t matter.
Different pair of eyes sees things differently, and duality is something that life on this planet relies on, as well the Universe.
Without so called “two way street”, there would’ve never been moving forward to anything, not in life, nor in science…
Duality makes things move forward and to the next level and you don’t owe anyone an explanation for any of these choices.
They are only yours.
And if you need variety of them on your path, so you can learn to differentiate what is good and what won’t work for you – it is OK.
Don’t ever let other people take control of your love life, because you are the only one who can decide which relationships will make you happy.
Sometimes your choices will make you fall, but no matter, you’ll always get back on your feet and move on.
That is life.
Trials and errors.
It will be always much better to realize the errors sooner, so you can go on with your life and make better choices.
Even if you are wrong, you don’t owe expalnataion to anyone.
You’ll make it right anyway.
Sooner or later.
2.Religious and Political Beliefs
If you are a pacifist, love people and hate politics, why to owe someone an explanation for it?
Your beliefs in kindness and empathy are very welcomed, but many will say that we live in a cruel world where the most famous saying “eat or you’ll be eaten” prevails.
Yes, it is true, “sharks” will eat you if you don’t “fight”, but it doesn’t mean you need to agree with it if you believe in human goodness, which is too rare these days.
If you are believer in goodness, and others are not – you don’t owe any further explanataion to no one.
Be what you are and stay true to yourself.
Goodness is always rewarded.
3.Not Being In A Relationship
It is a perfectly normal choice.
If you need to be with someone, you will, but it doesn’t mean you need to be at any cost, so you won’t feel alone anymore.
Maybe you’ve just got out from an emotionally or physically abusive relationship, and you need time to pull yourself together for a while.
If you need some space – have it, and don’t explain your choices.
You need some time off.
Maybe you enjoy not being attached to no one and having the freedom to find out what you really want and need.
You are a strong, independent wo(man)who doesn’t need any family members, or friends to pressure about singleness chosen.
Online dating is chaotic anyway, so why pursue it?
Feel the freedom.
Of course you are perfectly normal person who doesn’t want to gossip behind people’s back. It is such soul poisoning.
Why on earth to be so judgmental?
Everybody wants to look, talk, behave the way they want, and sorry if they don’t fit in your “perfect” little world of yours.
Do you think that you are the one who should say what is wrong and what is right? Have you seen yourself in a mirror lately and said oh…this is not me?
There are unwritten social behavior rules that seem to be normal and natural, but normality these days has been TWISTED in so many ways.
Unfortunately, defined “not normal things” today are taken as normal, so can anybody please let us know what is a definition of being NORMAL?
5.You Have Your Own Opinions
Of course you have, and of course you will disagree with many people on certain topics. Everybody has different views on life itself and everything that goes with it, and if you don’t agree with something – you just don’t.
Who says that if you want to be a part of some group of people, you need to agree with their opinions?
You have a head to think, and mouth to talk and don’t let yourself being trapped in this “agreeable” practice.
You’ll lose your soul and what your core is about.
6.Ending A Toxic Friendship
If you had one and you’ve decided to put an end to it, its OK.
You don’t deserve toxic people pulling out your energy and making you feel miserable in their presence. If you had a “friend” who didn’t respect you, value your friendship, or made you feel like your best- self, it was about time to cut the ties.
No need of apology for clearing the air.
7.The Way You Look
You have learned to love your body even you have few pounds more. You have decided to do some makeover, and if you need to steam off a little bit, it’s OK, but not getting too much into the wild side, as it may hurt you un-intentionally.
If you wanted a small tattoo while you were young and it was forbidden to you, you can still do it reasonably. If you have more free spirit and you need to express yourself artistically (even upon yourself), you can still do it.
How you look is your own business, and once you stop feeling the need to explain why you look a certain way, you’ll start appreciating your own appearance more.
Your life – your choices.
But, word of advise.
Don’t overdo it.
8.Your Living Whereabouts
Some people choose to live in a city, and some in suburbs.
You housing choice is only yours, even if it means you have decided to get back to your parents house for a while. Disregard any stereotypes and do what you think you need at the time being.
Live wherever you think it will fit your lifestyle and your work preferences. No one should judge you for circumstances they don’t fully understand, and why some choices were made.
People will gossip however- whether you like it or not.
Who cares…nobody deserves your explanation anyway.
9.Your Job Choice
Maybe you don’t have your dream job and your finances aren’t going so well, still, you will be the one who will decide what to do.
And maybe you DO have your dream job, you enjoy it, but still don’t get not too much money from it. Of course, everybody will wait for an explanation why you still do it, but hey…at the time being you’re doing your thing and that’s it.
When you’ll sense it is time for something else, you’ll switch anyway. Whatever the reason, don’t let someone else dictate your career moves.
When the time comes – you’ll know what to do.
10.Your Alone Time
Everybody need some time alone, even if it means you wan’t see your friends or family for sometime. If you need to set back – do it, and you’ll be the one judging how much “alone” time you need and nobody else.
Clear your mind and set yourself free if that’s what you need.
And you know what?
You don’t have to give any explanation for it.
It is me, myself and I time.
11.Being Too Positive
Now tell me: why should anyone give an explanation about their permanent positive attitude? Isn’t that something everyone should follow as an example?
It’s maybe part of their natural born character and why would anyone like to sabotage it?
Be proud of your positive outlook on life, and you may even help someone to develop theirs.
Spread your lovin’ no matter what…
12.Having Life Goals
Isn’t this something that everybody has to have – life goals? What would life be without them…a blank piece of paper with nothing to read about.
If you have goals that will color your life even more, there is really no need for explanation of any kind. The good thing is, you’ll maybe motivate people in your surroundings to create their own.
Positivity should be reflected everywhere and goals are moving people forward.
Why would anybody object on that?
Do your thing…
13.Explanation For Not Having Own Family
Sometimes people are driven to make such choice and it isn’t something should be discussed in anyway.
Some are not natural born parents to be, some are career seekers, some have health issues on the subject and don’t want to spread the word about it, and some think that the world is too much of a cruel place to live in, so unborn innocent souls shouldn’t bear the struggle.
Whatever choice they’ve made – DON’T JUDGE THEM!
Everybody needs to follow their own path…
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