Lack Of Confidence
Every once in a while we may “lose” our compass and drift through life like a leaf, losing our confidence along the way.
No one can tell why it happens – it just does.
While experiencing low points in our lives, whether we go through a heavy divorce or break up with our partner, losing a job over some dude who entered the company pulling all the strings he had and pushing you away are some of the causes making you wonder : what is wrong with you and why the whole world is falling apart?
Don’t worry – ’cause you are not the only one in this.
The perception you have of yourself has an enormous impact on how others perceive you. Also, the more self-confidence you have, the more likely you are to succeed.
Lack of self-confidence is being afraid of failure, and some confidence affirmations can help you overcome the fears you have.
Which one can do the trick and help you be confident all over again?
Always Look At The Bright Side Of Life
No matter how hard it seems at the beginning, this should be your lifetime motto. Life is serious enough by itself, but if you look at obstacles as your guidance for higher purpose, you’ll see they came at the right time.
You needed a lesson to boost your self-esteem while deep thinking of the problem solutions.
Be Kind To People
Always start the day with kindness. It doesn’t hurt to say good morning to your neighbors, or to carry grocery bags to an old lady.
Being kind will open new passages in your heart and soul, and it is impossible not to feel good when being kind to someone.
Improve Body Posture
Usually, when people are depressed or are not feeling so well – they slouch, and their body posture says it all. And if you’re slouching, you’re more likely to feel down about yourself.
People can easily say that something is wrong, just by observing you.
Rise and stand tall.
Wear Bright Colors
It is scientifically proven how colors have tremendous psychological effect on our brain. If you want to elevate your mood, wear bright colors especially – yellow.
It can calm you down and brighten up your mood.
Start from the drawers, continue with your closets and finish with the basement. Un-loading your house from old stuff and potential garbage, is the first step of making clearer space in your head as well.
By the end of your actions, you ‘ll feel light as a feather and with new energy flow within.
You don’t believe us?
Try and let us know how you feel…
Set A Goal And Go For It
When your soul is sluggish as well, the best thing to move it on, is to set goals and try to achieve them. Make sure they are realistic ones, as if you strive too high – there is always a possibility of failure.
Start with baby steps and see how your goal is almost achieved. The FINISH LINE will be driven force for you to succeed.
Make your goals come true and see how you are becoming more and more confident.
Listen Happy Music
As for colors, music have the ability to influence our mood. Have you noticed when you are sad, you are listening soft music, and when you are bursting from happiness you jump around on vibrant tones?
Even if you are not in a good mood, switch to happy music as it has invisible and hidden power to lift you up.
Latino music will boost your mood and if you have someone to dance with – even better!
A good song can psychologically alter your state of mind, and melody with too much beats in it will trigger nothing but good mood.
Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone
You’ve been there too long, and every disturbance makes you feel uncomfortable-undermining your confidence.
You need to “throw”yourself into new situations, especially the ones you’ve been avoiding for so long. Why not embrace fear?
Give your fears a good “hug” and see how they melt way.
This may sound difficult, but once you learn to face everything you avoid – your confidence will get to another level.
Try new things!
If You Need Help – Ask For It!
If there is something you can’t do, it isn’t shameful to ask for help. It is not sign of weakness – you need help to achieve your goals.
Nobody can do everything on their own, and having some help can be so liberating.
You’ve been brave for asking help.
Put A Smile On Your Face
Whether you like or not, a smile can be so much soul uplifting, it will lighten your face even in darkest moments.
If needed, observe your face in a mirror while smiling.
You get the idea what we are talking about and how people will respond seeing a smiling face?
Become YES Wo(man)
Make “YES” as your daily mantra.
Stop avoiding social gatherings, going to new interviews or meeting new people. If you make your home a forceful prison, you surely will feel like prisoner.
Go outside and inhale deeply.
Fill those lungs with breath of fresh air and feel it going through your body.
That is life.
Breath in – breath out.
Don’t avoid life.
Just say YES to it…
Self confidence affirmations, when repeated over and over again will help you build your lost self-confidence and boost your inner spirit like never before.
By having positive thoughts, you release vibes that by their nature have to bring much goodness for you.
If you are wondering which sentences should be outspoken out-loud, and you have to mean them with the bottom of your heart, we think these might help:
- I love myself deeply and completely
- I live here and now, and I am confident in future
- I am brave
- I am creative and persistent in everything I do
- I am enthusiastic and energetic person
- I always attract the best positive people
- I always attract the best possibilities for me
- I am a problem solver and I do it so easily
- I love changes and I can adjust to each one of them
- I love challenges as they inspire me
- Nothing is impossible and I always succeed
- I always see good in people
- I face and handle difficult situations with courage
- I will continue to learn and grow
- I am happy and successful
- I am competent, smart and able to do whatever I intent to
- I love the person I am becoming
- I believe in my skills and abilities
- I am worthy of all the good things that happen in my life
- I am strong and powerful
- I boldly go after what I want in life
- I am outgoing and confident in social situations
- I believe in myself
- I always stand up for myself and my beliefs
- I always speak my mind without any hesitation
- Others look up to me as a leader because of my confidence
- I always express my thoughts and opinions with confidence
The self-esteem and self-worth affirmations are great place to start, but ultimately you’ll want to form your own affirmations.
Just think of the things that bother you about yourself, or the areas you feel bad, and create own affirmations to tell yourself you are improving.
However, you shouldn’t rely only on affirmations alone to make a difference in your life. Affirmations are just one part of the battle and a side-help.
You have to do some real work if you want changes to happen.
Whatever you think it will work – DO IT and we can only say – GOOD LUCK!
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