Being A Mom
Mom is a MOM. She is the pillar in our lives that holds us together and in one piece. You don’t know the exact meaning of the word until you become a parent yourself. And then, you start comparing. Everything you do, the way you act and think, or the way you behave-have roots planted from your parents.
Subconsciously, we mimic them and we are not even aware of it sometimes. However, not everyone is fortunate to have great parents since there is such a variety of circumstances and conditions that lead to difficult times where usually kids suffer…no one is to blame. Everybody learned their lessons depending the life they had and along with it comes awareness of life itself.
Being a mom is a tough “job” to do. You want all the best for your kids and you want them to become good persons and successful ones, but not loosing themselves throughout the journey called – LIFE.
And one is for sure, if you have been raised by a strong women – you got BINGO in life. A strong mom makes her children being as well. Even more than herself. Without those lessons you wouldn’t be what you are today.
What valuable lessons she gave you?
Encouraged You To Speak Your Mind
A strong woman is honest one. She plays straight and she teaches her children to become the same. She strongly believes in good communication and she sticks to it always. Communicating well is the essence of everything in life. It is valuable skill to gain and maintain throughout life, since without it all problems arrive.
Made You See How Education Is Important
Yes, she knows the importance of being educated. It is the best investment you can do for yourself. And indeed…knowledge is power. It can take you everywhere you imagine leading you to a successful life. When you invest in yourself, you invest in your future. Educate, learn and improve all the time. The success always follows.
You’ve Learned To Think On Your Own
You have learned to have opinions of your own. You don’t create them by getting them from your surroundings. A strong mom teaches you not WHAT to think – but HOW to think. Even though in your process of learning for sure you have made mistakes, but that is just the part of growing up.
Yes, growing up can be hurtful, but pain always gives the best results. Contradictory – but true. The best teacher in life are our mistakes and the knowledge withdrawn from them. Hurtful indeed – but enlightening.
You’ve Become Your Own Competition
You have already learned the lessons where hard work is rewarding. Thank your mom for it, since she forced you to become better every single time. She made you see that by improving every step of the way it will lead you to knew challenges which will make you even better than before. Competing with yourself is inner driven force for your future success in everything you do.
You’ve Learned To Value Money
Yes, she found her way to teach you about the meaning of financial independence. She made you work hard and see how tough it is in life and during the process you’ve realized that you should value what you’ve earned and not to become easy handed.
Making your own money made you being independent today. In this kind of living we have NOW – yes, it is important lesson to be learned.
You are comfortable expressing yourself with who you are and what you stand for.You seek knowledge, adventures and you’ve become world globetrotter.
You want to explore everything around you and what is of your interest. Meeting different kind of people, being in many awkward situations, having diverse experiences made you what you are today.
Fear from changes has disappeared.
You’ve Become An Emapthic Person
If you’ve become an empathic person, you are now in touch with one of the most valuable characteristics in life. Yes, being an empath has it downsizes since you want to save everyone and help everybody.
Your mom loved you without any fear and fought in every possible way to made you what you are today. Strong, fearless, passionate, kind and with a great sense for other people.
Being a genuine, worthy and decent human being is one of the best lessons ever learned.
You’ve Learned The Importance Of Family
While you were raised, she made an input so you can see the importance of family and friendship. You’ve learned the meaning of sharing, sense of community and help in need. Family and friend connections are priceless. They shape your life. Forever!
You’ve Learned The Term – CHANGE!
Yes, she made you realize to understand your situations. To accept them, or to change them. Making constant changes and improvements drove you where you are today.
She has teach you not to fear, but to grasp the moment and make decisions that works in favor. That is why you’ve become successful in life. So much thanks to give to your mom!
And once again, I must say and repeat myself : not everyone was fortunate enough to have great and strong parents since there were such a variety of circumstances and conditions that lead to difficult times where usually kids suffered…and no one is to blame.
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