How Much You Tolerate?
Yes, we all do tolerate certain things in a relationship or in a marriage, but everything has it’s boundaries. Relationships are complex organisms, and it is very difficult to determine all the pros and cons.
However, there are times when certain behaviors cross the line and you shouldn’t tolerate them. If you find your partner involved in any of the following, it may be time for you to re-think where your relationship is going and whether you’re getting the treatment you deserve.
You can determine that starting from TODAY not TO tolerate things that bring you down. After all, our time in this world is limited AND WE SHOULD LIVE IT AT IT’S BEST.
Decide that from today you will start to live a full and more meaningful life.
Get out from there! You should NEVER tolerate an abusive relationship. If you are experiencing fear from your partner, or permanent physical, emotional or sexual abuse, it is time to escape such relationship.
Healthy relationships are based on respect and mutual trust.
Living an honest life is priceless. Remember that people who are dishonest try to steal other people’s reality and sometimes life.
If it happened once…it will happen again. It is just a matter of time. If you discover your partner isn’t 100% fully committed to your relationship, then it’s probably time to move on.
Disrespect shows no regard for people, laws, social norms – on anything. Don’t be disrespectful. Such people are avoided from the crowd.
If your partner is threatening to leave you for no reason (usually there is a reason…infidelity going on), make the smart move and get away before he/she does. Be a WINNER!
If you are dating somebody, it doesn’t mean they need to know what are you doing or where you are 24/7. They don’t have respect of your privacy and usually these kind of people are insecure. Do not tolerate that.
Don’t put up with insults. Yes, arguments and disagreements are part of every relationship, but the necessity to insult someone is disrespectful 100%! Zero toleration to this!
Suspicious Phone Calls At Night
It is a middle of the night. A phone call taken in the bathroom…or in the kitchen…or garage…hmmm…???
Accusations of cheating are usually made by cheaters itself. Walk a way!
If one thing I can not stand are liars. The first thing you notice as a potential lie breaking through…no time to think. I hate liars. Big time!
Always be in charge of your life. Don’t let anyone to control your finances, or let yourself being controlled by it if you are unemployed and in a relationship.
You have a head to think and to hands to work…stay INDEPENDENT!
No Balance Of Power
You should always meet in the middle. If someone is always taking in charge for making decisions for both of you without even asking for an opinion…start THE talk!
It shouldn’t be everything on your shoulders. You need help and equal partnership in everything- home included!
Poor or No Communication At All
Never tolerate lack or poor communication. Try encouraging open, honest and loving communication in your relationship. Healthy communication is essential to a happy life. But if it doesn’t go both ways – it is time to reconsider if you are meant for each other at first place!
If you find yourself here and you are still with the same partner…you should analyze yourself a bit!
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