Can you for a second imagine the expression on your mother’s face when you honor her by giving her the warmest hug ever, thanking her for everything she did for you, no matter if it is a Mothers day?
No present can beat that inner feeling of gratitude towards the most important women in your life – your MOM.
That inner satisfactory feeling when her children show appreciation for everything she did for them – is the most valuable one for her.
The truth is, you will never understand your parents until you become one, and face the fears a parent has during children’s growth.
That constant inner worry for kids to be safe and sound follow your parents, and especially your mom throughout her whole life.
It doesn’t matter how old you are.
You will be always her child.
It isn’t easy being a mom. So much sacrifice and efforts has taken place for her children to become good and honest persons.
And maybe at some point, she left her dreams behind so she can raise you and give you a good home.
Every mother knows what kind of struggles she takes until she brings her children to the right path, being their silent shadow, following everything they do and everything that happens in their lives.
Yes, she will remain your silent whisper in your ear that will follow you even when she will be gone…
How To Make Mothers Day Memorable?
Almost everybody wants to contribute celebration of Moms day by having different ways of showing appreciation.
Here we will present some simple ideas how to make Mothers day to be remembered, and of course, you can create your own as well.
Make Your Favorite Brownies
Do you remember those Sunday brownies that you’ve been making together? Well, this is a perfect occasion to recall some past times, do them together like you did them once and laugh about things.
And don’t forget to bring in some video camera and catch the moments of having fun in kitchen. Create memories for your kids to look up to.
They are the most valuable ones.
Chill Together In Spa
If you can afford it, it would be great way to spend 1-0-1 day with your mom.
Take time and schedule some beauty pampering for both of you. Remind her about her beauty and how she need to add some more glow on herself.
Some of it has just vanished throughout the years, struggling with so many things as a mom. You can do facials, manicure, pedicure, massage, but the most important is to have some quality time together as you once did.
But believe me, she will always glow when she sees you, no matter how many beauty spa treatments she has.
Make Album From Old Photos
Surprise her by making a photo album from all the photos she has put in the addict and forgot about them.
You can go through them together, remembering old days and how life and people were different back then.
You will see that at the old days life was slowly passing without any hurry, and it was plain and simple easiness of living.
It is something worth to recall despite the rush of today modern living.
While going through old photos, you’ll see many people and relatives you’ve maybe lost any touch, and even some tear can be drawn upon your faces craving for the time that has gone by.
Net Socialize Her
Join her on FB and teach her how to find old friends and work through this media. She might find something that is of her interest and she will tune into it.
Welcome her to this internet crazy world.
At first she will juggle with it, but later on, she will be thankful that you’ve connected her with her long time no see friends to catch up some old times.
Enroll Her To A Yoga Class
As your parents are getting older ,they need more movement to maintain their healthy body and spirit. Do not push her to sweat in a gym if she is more of yoga person.
Yoga can benefit her in so many ways, not to mention spiritual uplifting.
She will make a few more acquaintances and she will bond with people liking same things and sharing similar opinions.
This will do so much good for her.
Make her understand that communicating and moving are the essentials of the holy trio : Mind, body and soul, and that they shouldn’t be neglected in anyway.
Book A Trip For Both Of You
And again, if you can afford, book a trip for both of you and explore other cities, people, countries and culture. Traveling is something that enrich your soul and broad up you horizon of views.
Don’t forget to video that trip so you can recall it and share opinions with your family. Or, if she lives in another country, make a surprise party for her, not knowing that you will visit her.
Celebrate her birthday, her life, her everything.
Make A CD Collection Of Her Favorite Songs
Make a music collection from a period she was young and having fun, to recall the times when she met your father.
If your father is safe and sound, this would be a great gift for both of them, but if you are missing a parent, this might not be such a good idea, it just wont work well…sad memories will arise…
Finish Her Garden
If your mother was planning to make a garden, but she didn’t had the strength and knowledge to dot it – help her. Make the most beautiful and cheerful garden ever.
Seed plants that will bloom in each season, reminding her of you and your time spent together on this Mothers Day.
Let Your Kids Do Something Memorable For Your Mom
Let your children write, draw or paint something for her, or write a poem. They can surprise her over a breakfast showing her all their love and appreciation.
She will cherish those for the rest of her life and from a bottom of her heart. It will be her best give ever – from her grand-kids.
You Can Accompany Her To a Church
It has been a while since you’ve been together in a church since you have moved away and created your own family in another city.
You will see many neighbors you haven’t seen in ages, and both of you can share a cup of coffee and chit chat in the nearest cafeteria catching up old times.
Gather All And Go Bowling
It will be filled with so much laughter and fun. And don’t forget to take pictures. The point of all these activities is just spending more quality time with your mom.
And your dad too, of course.
Sometimes, it’s hard to coordinate schedules, or you may have your own family that wants to spend the day with you. If this is the case, you can always plan to celebrate Mothers day at a later date.
At the end, it isn’t all about the date, but the time spent together You can have mothers day every day if you like to.
It Is All About Spending The Day Together
Celebration of this day shouldn’t be always about presents. At the end, all that matters is spending the day together and bond even more because time flies fast…
Some, are not so fortunate to have a mom…there are circumstances that some has lost parents due to illness, war, accidents or they’ve been given for adoption and never met their moms.
For them, it really hurts not to have someone to hug and congrats Mothers day.
The only thing that matters on this day is to give appreciation to your mom for everything she did for you, by saying the most simple and powerful words – I LOVE YOU AND THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING!
Happy Mothers Day!
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