Most people spend a lifetime in search for a lifetime partner, hoping that it would be their perfect match.Some find it at early stage in their adult life,some later on, and unfortunately some do not find it at all.
But we often ask ourselves,what qualities a lifetime partner should have to be our perfect match.
Talking to many women,what qualities should a lifetime partner have,they all agreed in these things:
Showing compassion usually means having a character of kindness and caring. Being able to empathize with people, says a lot about the character of a person.
If your partner treats others with respect,it is evident that kindness and compassion will be present in your relationship as well.
Love With Open Heart
Open people usually love with open heart. There is no hiding,no secret love affairs nothing to be shamed of. Their intentions are open and almost at the beginning of the relationship you can “feel” intuitively ,if the vibes are good. Introduction to friends and family is not an issue at all. Everything flows smoothly.
Sense Of Forgiving
Usually, mature,grown, conscious person,do not hold back mistakes of any kind,repeating them verbally to the partner over and over again,bringing the relationship to a stage of dismantle.They are willing to let it go and to move on.
Every couple has made some kind of mistakes in some period of life,but if the love and feelings are real, and both partners has mutual understanding, such obstacle should be passed and to try to carry on.
An open conversation is most crucial of ALL.
In some period of the relationship,it is inevitable disagreements to occur.It is perfectly normal, since both partners are with different characters and ongoing adjustments are daily presence.Without both balancing in the relationship,only arguments will follow.
But if they already occurred,it is fair to work through them respectfully and honestly. Fair fight means a lot of listening and not just putting the blame to the partner. Listen!
Having ambitions, is as vital to a good relationship ,as it is to a good career too. An ambition happens when you really want something to achieve. It means you want to upgrade yourself,your life,your career and your relationship as well.
No one wants to be in a relationship with someone who is happy with the status quo situation and don’t want improvements of any kind. With such person you will feel stuck.
In order the relationship to evolve to a higher level, the partners in it need to evolve too. It is always better if you have mutual interests, so you can push each other to reach already set mutual outline goals.
Feelings that are out of control usually bring chaotic life, and,usually it means that the relationship will be in a constant state of roller coaster.
Being emotionally stable means being secure in the relationship, being satisfied at work ,in the relationship and with life in general.
Off course, everyone has moments where emotions can run wild, but being able to handle such situations in a healthy way,using the level of emotional intelligence,is essential for a good relationship and it means that you have well adjusted partner.
When entering in a relationship ,you should have a clear financial awareness of the benefits for everyone. Understanding the meaning of debt, prioritizing spending and savings for the future, is meaningful and necessary. Aligning financial goals helps to provide a sense of security to the relationship so it can blossom.
Having and practicing gratitude, is setting foundation to a relationship. It should be daily feeling, being grateful for everything ,so you can create positive energy flow that will open the gates of a happy life together.
Before you meet the “right”partner,you should first clear out with yourself what do you want, and what characteristics the future life partner to be should have, so you can decide whether you want to create long lasting happy life together.
However,it is the constant personal upgrade and awareness, that will lead you to the right partner that you are looking for and also making you the perfect match for someone else too…