The First Date Decision
Finally you’ve decided to go on a first date with someone you like so much, but your fears are high. You don’t know how it will turn out to be and will it be successful.
Well, there’s nothing to worry about. Just be natural and everything will fall into its right place.
You have probably made a long list of your first date questions so you can start from somewhere, in order to fill that empty void that usually occurs during conversation.
A good date is all about keeping your options open, and of course, it stands the same for the other person too.
And if you are wondering how to do it, here are some first date tips.
Choose A Place
If possible, choose a public or your favorite place to meet so you can feel comfortable and secure in your own surroundings.
Cafe places are always the best place for a first date, because an innocent cup of coffee allow a short or a longer meeting, depending on how well you’ll hit it on.
You know the old saying – dress for success.
Well, the same stands here. Dress accordingly, taking into consideration the weather(hot, cold, windy etc).
Balance your clothing right and don’t overdo it. You don’t want to scare off your companion so soon.
Don’t end it before it begins.
Choose an outfit that will fit you well and will enhance your confidence throughout your date.
Be There On Time
Avoid being late, as it is very inappropriate and disrespectful. Always arrive on time. In case there is a possibility to be late, send a simple text message and explain the situation.
Reasonable person will understand and will not make any fuss about it.
The most important thing is if you are familiar with body talk to observe your companion. After you’ve started the conversation, body language is as important as facial language.
Small touch during conversation is a good and very clever way to emphasize a conversation point. A lingering touch is an obvious indication of physical attraction.
Just don’t get pushy.
Another tip(this might sounds childish but it is working) – is to mimic other person moves, which surely will send a signal that you are interested, observing, and that you want to make some kind of connection and to ease the process.
Being a little bit foolish will both make you laugh more and ease the process of conversation.
What About Face Talk
Eyes are the mirror of the soul, and face expressions follows them. They go hand in hand.
For example, when you are on a date, and you are truly interested in the person who you are with, it is good to make more of eye contact during conversation allowing to linger for a moment, which is long enough to establish some kind of interest, but not so long that will make you look like as some kind of a stalker.
Do it in a very subtle way so you can make your point, and the person can receive the vibe which will set you off.
During conversation you can gaze for a moment by giving a small smile, or a sexy and subtle eyebrow raise.
Subtle. Don’t forget.
Don’t Forget To Compliment
Girls always like a good and sincere compliment, and you should really mean it, because false alarm sets off quickly in women’s world.
Don’t fool yourself.
Honesty is something that is underestimated these days, but try not to fill that quote and become just another number in the statistics.
At the beginning, it can really get awkward and uncomfortable when making a small talk, and especially with someone you’ve just met.
It’s not that difficult. You can always start by saying hello and introduce yourself.
When complimenting someone you should:
- Put the person at ease
- Have taken a time to notice and compliment (the looks)
- Send a very clear signal that you are interested
After you’ve break the ice, the conversation should develop smoothly and without any obstacles. You both need to relax and have some spontaneous talk.
You can always ask basic questions, like who you are, what you love to do, talk about your music and movie taste, your background etc.
The subjects to talk about are so many. Just be spontaneous and avoid silence in between.
You’ll see that there are people with whom you can easily start a conversation, and there are some tough nuts to crack.
They are usually type of heavy conversational people where there is more of a silence, then talk in between. If it turns out you both have mutual interests, the conversation will start to flow more easily.
Take your time and stay relaxed. Don’t get so intense about this. After all, you are only having a polite conversation.If your efforts are mutual, you are on a good way.
If not, it’s OK. So be it. It’s not the end of the world. You will eventually find someone else and try the whole process all over again.
In case you don’t feel the spark, don’t end up the date immediately. Give it a chance for a couple of more times as people usually get nervous and they can’t present themselves in their best light.
Give another try and then you can decide what do you want to do.
Enjoy The Date
Try to have fun. It’s all that matters. First timer is all about getting to know each other and see if you can match somewhere in between(similar interests perhaps).
And if not, you will both keep trying until you find your true match.
If you want to end the date because it is not a pleasant one, there is a polite way to do it. Keep a warm and positive note, so you can avoid hurting somebody’s feelings.
Being honest as your main attribute, will lead you to the right person – just be patient.
Don’t give up and just keep trying, it will pay off eventually.
Who knows, maybe one day you’ll celebrate your first date anniversary
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