Love isn’t always easy and it is a life lesson that we all have experienced eventually. Relationships are hard to maintain if you don’t involve in it’s growing process together. Everyone should put effort in it and make it work. Regardless your relationship status, these tips might help you turning your relationship into a long term bond.
This is something you should do on a daily basis. Just saying or doing small things every day can make such a difference. When someone feels recognized, the involved part usually gets more motivated to make the relationship even better.
Make small meaningful gestures like hug, kiss, buying or making a small gift, preparing lunch or dinner…each of these things will do the magic push.
2.Value Your Relationship
In real life, many relationships fail, but it doesn’t mean they didn’t have any value. Each lesson learned is valuable one even when break up occurs. Everyone evolves differently even a relationship. If it didn’t work out-LET IT GO and enjoy the journey you’ve had no matter.
3.Don’t Take Each Other For Granted
If you want your relation to endure, don’t let yourselves to come up to a point that you took each other for granted. If you don’t realize the warning signs earlier, you might end to a couples therapy, but then, it might be too late for any fix.
If you don’t meet in the middle with each others needs, you might end looking them somewhere else.
4.Have Some Space On Your Own
If you are glued to each other 24/7, it is likely that you’ll soon start feeling suffocated even your love is strong. Everyone should have some time and space for your own so you can both renew energies to carry on. Go out with your own friends, or go home to visit your families, in one word-DO YOUR OWN THING.
It is healthy thing to do.On your return, both of you will feel fully recharged to carry on and become even stronger.
Create relationships outside yours. It will freshen you up!
5.Four Conflict Messages
It is all about how you fight, not for what you fight. Don’t attach to these negative tactics. You should always try to fight fairly. Try to see where do you overlap with your common goals and start building from there.
6.Find Someone Similar
If you want to have long lasting love, then similarity of characters are playing major role here (education, age, hobbies, life values). When you move further, up to the point of marriage discussion, you should know all values included.
Many differences can be tolerated and accommodated, but the difference in values can significantly influence the relation established. Both partners should commit themselves to make this work, otherwise they might ruin everything they’ve built so far.
7.Better Approach To Problems
If you’ve brought up a problem not in a good manner, automatically it will heat up the conversation. Issue that is brought up as an attack and constant criticism, are main relationship killers.
Try doing it in a good manner and polite way, and avoid attacking the other party. If you focus on your emotional reaction, you’ll only create more of it.
8.Meet Each Others Needs
Relationships are defined as a process where each other needs meet. When the “exchange” is mutually satisfied, good vibes flow. And when it simply doesn’t happen, people end up with sorrow, regret and break ups.
This is why you should observe each other and do many expressions of love.You should always meet in the middle and do stuff for one other. It is called CARRYING!
9.Don’t Loose Yourself In The Process
When you are in relation with someone, don’t abandon yourself. Don’t ignore your feelings, who you are and what you want. Treat yourself with a care, don’t postpone your needs. Eat healthy, live healthy, have friends, go to occasions and rise spiritually. It is not selfish thing to do. You just rise more as a human being. Work on yourself.
When you learn to love yourself instead abandoning yourself, you will create even more loving for both of you and make your relationship even better.
10.Work On It-Keep It Hot
Seduce each other always. Make things as fresh as the first time you’ve met. Do you remember those butterflies tingling your stomach? Well, you should make them not to stop ever.
Keep them -ALWAYS!